Pain & Suffering

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Pain and suffering surfaces because we need to resolve the issues inside we want to avoid. We can only stuff things inside for a certain amount of time.

We are the creator of our lives. Things just don’t happen. We choose our experience. We choose the people that play the parts in our life.

Life is a tough place sometimes. We do have to sacrifice some relationships to transform and become the butterfly we were meant to be.

Life will push us into the direction we must go. We may not want to let go. We may have strong emotional, mental, and spiritual attachments.

Grief is hard on us and we have to experience things we rather not experience at times. Emotions need to be felt and acknowledged to move on from them.

We have to understand emotions and feelings are healthy and normal regardless of what we’ve been told.

We run into trouble when we resist those emotions and feelings and try to ignore them or toughen up without letting them be what they are in the moment.

When we can experience the feeling and we can release it and then we are able to heal.

Life gets better as we go along and learn the things we need to and personally develop. There’s time we do grieve and there is no way to avoid that moment of truth.

The harder we resist the changes and try to hang on the more painful it becomes. When we let go it is easier to heal and acknowledge that time is our friend and opens new opportunities for growth and understanding.