Are You Resistant to Change?

over 9 years ago
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Heavenly Sunshine (heavenlyarchangel12)

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Are you resistant to the changes that need to be made in your life?

We have a tough time in some circumstances because we don’t want to make the changes necessary in our life.

Where we get stuck:

How we believe things are in the now.

How you really want it to be in the now.

How it really is right now.

We may have certain beliefs about ourselves and our lives. We may think it’s unfair life is presenting itself the way it is at the moment.

We may have false beliefs about the world, ourselves, and other people. We see things a certain way, think it should be, ought to be, or it’s supposed to be this way.

We limit ourselves. We sabotage ourselves. We get stuck in limited beliefs and mindsets. Spread your horizon’s. We may have been doing things the same way all our lives. Perhaps it’s time to do something different then what you’re doing right now.

We may wish we had a good paying job, a loving relationship, and loving family that always cares for us perfectly. We may wish we didn’t have to go through the pain and suffering to become a whole and complete person.

We may wish the guy or gal loved us, and was the one.

We may not want to accept the way life is in the now. We can be resistant. We can fight it. We can make things hard, by hanging on to someone that doesn’t desire to be with us.

We may want to hold on to certain beliefs and a negative frame of mind.

We may want to hold on to outdated methods that no longer produce results in our life financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, or even physically.

We may believe outdated information that doesn’t work in society. We may need new training, educate ourselves, and constantly be upgrading to stay in the working field.

We may want to depend on other people to navigate our way instead of learning to trust ourselves and pave our own way in having healthier relationships with friends, family, and lovers.

We may have to face the fact that we can’t always depend on others, and our choices in who we hang around, or who we give our power and control too, other people may or may not have our best interest at heart.

And last, it may be hard to acknowledge you have to be the person that takes control of where you want your life to go. If you follow everyone else in life, you may not be where you want to be.

Evaluate where you are at in the now, and make adjustments to steer your life in the right direction.