Finding Balace

over 8 years ago
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Psychic Helena Louis (psychichelena)

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Finding a balance in life doesn’t have to be a mysterious journey.

Most people want things right now in this day and age we want every thing to happen instantly’’’ high speed internet 4g connections on are cell phones smart tvs drive through fast food chains all these things are supposed to make or life’s so much easier and help makes us run faster into the future,

Family’s don’t connect any more now ah days are teenagers are set in front of a high speed computer/xbox/ps4 parents are berried in work an how to make our pay check pay for are high speed life, But the Reality is that while where wondering how to make things move faster and running our self’s into a frenzy of panic and mayhem are children or growing up.

But what our they learning what are we teaching them,, That every thing has to move quickly and the quicker the better why? what basics an fundamental values did we teach them hmmm.

Has this generation really come to the conclusion that every thing needs to fall into place on the very second that we need it too and is that reality is that what really helps us grow… of coarse not we all fall and make mistakes isn’t it all about trial and error learning from our own experiences isn’t there more to it then just paying bills and trying to take over the world are world i see people young and old alike try to “speed” through every thing even love we expect it to happen in an instant but that’s only a fairy tale. We have to get to know someone we have to find a balance between each other we have to talk and be open and honest with each other as we grow into each others life’s we learn each others likes and Dislikes.

We also have to find time for our self’s we need to reconnect with a higher calling our spiritualism reconnect with the earth and realize that we all have someone watching over us we need to be at peace with are mistakes and failures and be real with yourself before we can be honest with someone else.

We all have a purpose in life we all stand for something’ taking the time to share it with someone especially with are children. Its true that kids are like sponges and they look to us for confidence assurance security etc, etc, but they also pick up on our traits and style of life if where always rushing things they will assume that running around like a chicken without a head is the norm, and vice versa if we are always prolonging and procrastinating then they will also assume that’s normal as i said we all make mistake but if we take the time to show are children that some things we will accomplish and some things happen for a reason that there is a lesson in everything we do and every one we meet will teach us something and if we live by showing are children and our self’s that everything takes time and effort. That noting that is given freely. that hard work and effort will pay off and that we should not expect less for our self’s. \

We need to take time to look back and think on how some of are mistakes made us who we are today we need to take time to relax and not stress every each our being we have to enjoy the happy times and cry over the sad moments because tomorrow is not promised to no one and we never no whats around the corner so being thankful for the good and grateful for the people that made us and the ones who broke us we first have to be broken in order to be put back together. We need to let out the pain and sorrow cry it out scream it out however you need to morn your sacrifice or heartache do it but know that all things work together for our good, God doesn’t promise that every day will be sunny and bright he does promise that he will always provide he will always hold our hand and be with us through good and bad times. We must find peace with all things and over come them we are all soldiers fighting a battle of some kind we all need a shoulder to cry on we all need someone to help us up. The goal is to be honest with yourself and find a balance in good and bad its all around us so we must continue the race until are race is over be strong and find the good in all things be peace full and if you don’t have peace look for it pray for it work at it. Don’t get carried away with fast pace of today.

Install standards and goals for your children in the end they have to learn and experience for them self’s but at least you know you gave them the basics to live by…......

Thank you all for readings god bless and give you peace today and every day

over 8 years ago

Hi great article thanks ! Especially this part

“Has this generation really come to the conclusion that every thing needs to fall into place on the very second that we need it too and is that reality is that what really helps us grow… “

So very true !

over 8 years ago
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Psychic Helena Louis (psychichelena)

76 posts

thanks for all your kind comments