Learn to let go and never chase a man or woman

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One of the hardest things to learn in life is to learn not to chase after another person. Let them go, and allow them to come back if they are meant to be in your life.

There’s nothing more freaky than having someone hang on to you and not let go. Some will follow you around site to site. Some will email you a million times. Some will call you 20 times a day. Some will show up where you work, where you live, and follow you every where you go.

I don’t think people intend always to become stalkers, but they can be so focused and obssessed on a person they don’t know where their boundaries start and another person’s ends.

If someone is not interested in you, they are not interested in you. It’s not going to matter what you say, what you do, or what your intentions may be, the person just doesn’t want you to be a part of their life anymore.

If they need space allow them to have space. If they need time alone allow them to be alone. If you need them to entertain you 24/7, this becomes your issue and your problem.

You should have a life of your own. You should have your own interests. You should be able to feel secure and happy without them being at your side 24/7.

If you are hanging on to someone and they choose not to be around you, you are invading their privacy. If they want to allow you into their sphere they will. We can not force someone to love us or even like us. They either like us or they don’t.

You just have to accept you may not be the right match for them. They might not be the best match for you. Chasing after them you are only allowing your self to get hurt. It’s kind of like putting your hand in fire and never learning the lesson if you leave it there long enough it will burn you and cause damage to your flesh.

You may not know this person well enough or what is going on in their life behind the scenes. Some times there are hidden dangers we don’t want to admit to our selves. If someone isn’t wanting to participate in your life, be thankful and let it go. It may be for a very good reason.

There are plenty of men and women out there that are more than willing to have a relatinship with you. There is no reason to hang on to someone that is not emotionally available or interested in you. So if someone walks out of your life, close the door, and open a new one. Let them go and understand it just may be the best thing for you.

great post, well written, thank you x

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I love this post

Thank You Oracle. Glad you enjoyed it! :) And to you also Angelicia

such great advice…..really well written and love the analogy of hand in fire….exactly that..it was definitely one of my past mistakes…..thanks for the article