When relationships go south

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Relationships that are ending cause so much grief. That’s true whether you’re the one choosing to leave or are the one left behind – disappointment and dismay often nag at the heart deeply even if you’re feeling suddenly set free from someone else’s heavy burden. Things can feel complicated!

If you did something brazen that caused your partner to lose trust and leave … then it’s much easier to cope with the lost relationship on a logical level because then it feels like you had some influence on that outcome. In that instance, it’s much easier to accept blame than when you did nothing wrong and a partner left. In that case, you might feel betrayed or wonder “Why did s/h/ze leave?.” Too many wonder “What is wrong with me?” (When the leaving quite often had nothing to do with beautiful you.)

When you’ve done everything you could to love and nurture a relationship, and the partner still pulls away, the only sliver of comfort to be found is in the fact that you did absolutely everything you could to make things work. YOU took the high road and as you examine your past experiences to find the valuable lessons hidden within you can then learn from the relationship … then you can be grateful for your new-found wisdom. Then you can let go of any residual bad juju associated with your ex and can then move onward, unfettered, to pursue your new, better, more fulfilling truly loving romantic relationship.

Life finds many ways to suggest that you and I only have control over our own behavior. We are not in control over what our lovers are thinking, or saying or doing.

What a Tarot reader can do is help you SEE what the other person is thinking, doing, and believing in any given moment so you can respond in the wisest way and in the best timeline possible. You don’t want to approach a past love at an inopportune time. So hire a good Tarot reader to hedge your bets about when to make contact. Hire a Tarot reader to learn if your new love potential will be receptive to your advances. Hire a Tarot reader when you need advice about how best to approach a coworker you are interested in to avoid career suicide.

You want answers because Tarot insight gives you power to do the best thing possible for achieving your own good mojo. Let me help you manifest the good destiny you are meant for!

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