My mother help please?

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My mother is nice to every one else’s daughter and son, butter wouldn’t melt in her mouth. When it comes to some else’s daughter and son she takes on a whole different personality then what she does with the way she treats me. I don’t understand why? She is so nice to every one else’s daughter and son and is hard on me because her mother treated her like dirt. My mother was abused as a child badly by her own mother and in turn abused me as a child and let my step father who she is now divorced from belt the living hell out of me as a child. He molested me one time when he belted me regularly she refuses to believe me that he molested me. My two brothers were not abused and she treats them different then how she treats me. She has no respect for my feelings and every time I try and convey my feelings to her face to face or through a email to her she gets nasty and tells me to get a life. She tells me I am like her grandmother – Oma who was loving and gentle and yet my mother is hard on me with the way she treats me. To top it all of my mothers partner doesn’t like Mum and I sharing a friendship he gets very jealous the minute we do his dob is 31/12/1957 and my mothers dobs is 12/7/1945. He was brought up between three sisters, he was the only boy and his mothers attention used to go to his sisters and not him and now he is with my mother he expects her to give him her full attention all the time and treats her like a mother figure. I am tired of always being put second by my mother for some one else’s son or daughter and her partner. Every time I bring it to her attention she gets nasty and won’t listen. I don’t know what to do any more. Mum is not talking to my eldest brother and my youngest brother cannot and has not seen my mothers partners true colors or my mums so I cannot ask him for help or advice. Because he was not abused as a child and has not seen my mothers true colors or her partners he defends my mother and her partner when I do try and tell him. His dob is the 5/10/1966 he has always been hard on me and his step son. What his daughter wants she gets. I can’t figure him out either. My mother constantly puts me down to other people behind my back when I am not around. Word got back to me that she told some some one years ago she wanted a boy when I was born and not a girl which explains why she abused me and let my step father abuse me.

1./ When will things change between Mum and I please? Will they ever change? She is still my Mum and I love her dearly. She has still got her good points too.

2./ How can I get my mother to see my side of the argument instead of her own side all the time?

3./ I don’t want my mother and her partner to break up they have been together for over thirty years and he has slight emphysema he has his good points too but how do I help my mother to see what he is doing that he is jealous of my mothers and mine relationship? Can she see it but refuses to acknowledge it? My dob is the 10/4/1965.

Thank you for any help or advice I don’t know where else to turn or to who.

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The issues with your mother are deep rooted both un psychological and spiritual nature. You have 2 options. One get into a good family theropy with mom. or two seek out a spiritual cleansing upon your self and mom as the past generational curses regarding the love connection between a mother and daughter go further back then even your grandmother. Call me for a psychic read that I may explain more. Blessings.

Well said Sable yeah I agree. For your mothers mother to abuse her your mothers mother must have been abused too by her mother and so on through the generations.

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Dear Aries1965,

As a counsellor I am going to say that this is a Family Theraply problem not a psychic reading.

As a counsellor – no unfortunately your mother is not going to change to the mother that you deserve and wish her to be – she has been operating in this mode of behaviour too long to change without counselling herself. You cannot make her go.

Sorry I wish I had better news but occasionally sometimes for your own protection and for any future children you may need to consider cutting her out of your life altogether – again please seek counselling where you live about these issues. Do not jump into any major or life changing decisions.

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Toxic relationships can be very difficult. I would seek out a counselor that can help you through those painful experiences.

Your mother may never change unless she decides to help herself too. You can go to counseling, but we have no control over whether someone else decides to help themselves.

This is very difficult, and parents may never be who we would like them to be. We have to find self-worth, love ourselves, and heal regardless. Be concerned about you, and make the changes you need too to exit toxic relationships.

When you do, you will find it easier to cope with things and make peace with the past. Focus on changing your life, versus being focused on mom. She may or may not follow in her own healing, but the priority is healing you.

How much I would like to help you, but a psychic is not going to help you. I suggest family therapy, but I doubt she will attend. Cut her off and move on.

If we could compare our lives in a mirror, they’d be exactly the same image; I know where you are coming from. Yet, no two situations are exactly alike, so I would have to look into each question you asked individually. I am sure I can help you to understand this confusing and often disturbing situation. I can either do a paid e-mail answering your questions, or we can figure out a price that works for you in the chat box. :) I’ll be kind with the minutes because I know how troublesome this complex ride can actually be. I look forward to meeting you & giving you the help you need!

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If we could compare our lives in a mirror, they’d be exactly the same image; I know where you are coming from. Yet, no two situations are exactly alike, so I would have to look into each question you asked individually. I am sure I can help you to understand this confusing and often disturbing situation. I can either do a paid e-mail answering your questions, or we can figure out a price that works for you in the chat box. :) I’ll be kind with the minutes because I know how troublesome this complex ride can actually be. I look forward to meeting you & giving you the help you need!

Many Blessings, Tammy

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