He just sent a friend request

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John has finally sent me a friend request. He has been gone since October- I’ve not excepted it yet – I’m being hesitant he hurt me in October and I’ve tried to connect he ran and didn’t make any with me. My last request from him in October was that all I wanted from him was respect and for him to show it. Will this man start changing his ways and show me the person I feel he is? I so much love him and want this more than anything but I will be honest I’m dating someone and we have been sexually involved and he’s so good to me. This has been in the back of my mind for sometime now – as I don’t want to hurt him – but I know which one my heart loves its- John….. but the other one is full of good and treats me with such respect :( always has…someone please give e me some advise thanks

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Update: John and I messaged this morning he tried to laugh off him running away – I personally didn’t find it funny because he said if I could control my cray cray – he wouldn’t run :) ..... now. I at first took it harshly but then I laughed – it’s so him to say that but I told him I would controm my cray cray and work on my issues – if he did the same – deal? I then told him I wanted a a friendship based on respect- that we had the amazing chemistry together and unveiled our ugly sides to each other- that it was time we show a different side to one another- I said I care about you I always have but I’m not going to be disrespected- I ended the messsge by saying I am though happy you’re back. What will he do next? The other guy the engineer I’m dating/ talking too is so attentive when I text but John stated this morning he wanted it to go slow- I love him but it’s been since oct 2015! How friggin slow does he want to go??

Advice to women: Marry the one that loves you!!! Fiesty:- Slow means he’s unsure; he’ll jump right in when he finds the ‘one’ he wants. Pls, pls pls – don’t let the engineer go….

Shh… thank you for reaching out to me youre a good person with s big heart – so am I and im being cautious with John this time….. I love him but what he doesn’t know – is what I do – he thinks he’s playing it cool – it’s so him but he’s insecure and I know that for a fact- he is scared of commitment- he’s well off – financially he has beautiful superficial women that crave that life style – and LIE to anybody who has it. He does. and I know he’s had a lot of fake women who’ve hurt him – he wouldn’t ever admit it thou – but it comes out not do directly – clues I have pieced together since oct 2015- the beginning – BUT, see he isn’t like that on the inside – he’s a good person with a quiet shy personality- a insecure man dressed in a high end suit and tie- that’s why I love him – normal and nothing like what he portrayed daily in front of people – at his work and although he can be the funniest guy and most obnoxious in the room- he’s got a heart and soul is what I’m saying I’ve felt it and have view it- it’s written on his face when he looks at me- I’m real – and not fake and drama he knows it – and is drawn to that but there’s no faking his feelings – when he looks at me – If I didn’t have clues on who he is on the inside -he’d be history already for what he’s done. I’m in love with him but I’m not going to turn from the engineer yet – I do really think he’s the sweetest man to me but right now I’m proceeding with my life as if John never came back ;)

Feisty I agree, dont let the engineer go and like I said the other day pleaseee dont make the same mistake I did. I am paying for it DEARLY now. I let go of the best thing that happened to me for a man whos sitll in my life but claims he sees me as a sister now and broke my heart who I get along with soooo good and so attracted to. It sucks. If i can prevent someone from making the same mistake I did, since I cant get my nice guy back, I will try to. I totally agree with shhh here. I dont think John deserves a spot in your life with how he spoke to you saying your cray cray F him. My guy hurts me with things he says like that all the time mr friendzone :/ The guy who friendzoned me same thing he has had a lot of fake women that hurt him or lied to him but yet i been the most honest ride or die and im a “sister” :(

That’s johns humor sadly at times but he knows when I’ve had enough- he stops- he aggravates and he in some stupid 15 year old way thinks it’s funny to see me riled up- lol but I will admit he exacutes it at the wrong times lol – But no worries on letting the sweet one go – I’m going to take this one day at a time and accordingly – I will not cross the line with John as long as I’m with engineer – fact. I’m not that way. I don’t have a heart to do someone wrong – but if I proceed with talking to John and his actions start to change then I will take note- I’m not telling John about engineer because if I did he’d lie to get me away from him – I’m sure. But I’m gonna play the wait and see game with the aid of those who see into the future :) on what his next move is- I’ve had those say he will be slow- st first but by next month may he will start – by end of may he will want something real- but some have said he will do it again – run. So waiting but not going to stop my life for him – my engineer is on call tonight or I’m sure we’d be together – but he’s texted back tonight every time I’ve texted to check on him – he’s a great guy snd the chemistry is there between us but I’m scared because the chenistry is stronger with John- so what scares me with engineer is will I be happy with anything less than what I feel for John :(

I know how you feel. Thats how I felt about the one I loved too.. Unfortunately I have to force myself to be happy with other men who arent as fun and who i dont feel as connected with. It is awful. But Im assuming I will grow feelings for them if they are kind to me at some point hopefully.

I asked myself this question days before John came back – if john didn’t come back would you be happy with engineer? I honestly said I’d be only content- but I was going to except it as my fate- then John came back I prayed and would talk to John as if he were in the room – we went on vacation early April – Niether knowing and was 10 miles apart – but every night I thought of him when I looked up at the moon over the ocean- he has never left my heart – and if this guy is on your heart that much don’t excuse it off – live your life and if it’s meant he will be back and it will work

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