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over 10 years ago

My fiancee and I have been together for almost 5 years. Lately he’s just been very distant and we’ve been arguing a lot and usually about little petty things. We were talking about planning our wedding but that’s come to a screeching halt. He used to tell me all the time how he couldn’t wait for me to be his wife. His ex (mother of 2 of his daughters) has always been a thorn in our sides. She would call him, text him all the time telling him she wants him back etc. She would text me that he was with her when he was at work, etc. 6 months ago she got with her current boyfriend and he told her he wouldn’t put up with her always trying to contact my fiancee unless there was a problem with the kids. Now she goes out of her way to tell my fiancee how happy she is, how she’s never been in love like this before, etc. Lately she’s been making up excuses surrounding the kids to call my fiancee and always stays off topic of the kids into her relationship or ours. Also I just found out my dad is sick. He’s going to have to have major surgery on his heart and his kidneys are possibly failing. I feel like my entire life is falling apart. What’s happening? Why is he being so cold? Why did the wedding planning stop? Will we make it through this? Will we get married? Why is she going out of her way to tell him about her life? If she’s so in love with her boyfriend why does she even care about our relationship? Will my dad be okay? I feel so overwhelmed right now :( (My birthday is 01/27/84 and his is 06/15/78)

over 10 years ago
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Jennys Sight (jennyssight)

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There some Past pain Problems going on Please contact me ans i can Help you

over 10 years ago
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EstherLibra (estherlibra)

1569 posts

Dear Trisha,

Unfortunately your fiancee ex is what is referred to as a Toxic Ex in counselling terms and NO she is very unlikely to ever let go.

Please be aware that legally readers cannot answer questions about medical issues (your father).

In case you are not aware this is a public forum and therefore we cannot discuss really personal issues here but only in Live Chat.

All the best ESTHER

over 10 years ago
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Heavenly Sunshine (heavenlyarchangel12)

805 posts

I can help you understand things better if you contact me. Boundaries need to be made with this woman on your husbands part & yours if she contacts you. While she may be toxic, it is all about how you both handle the situation with her.

over 10 years ago
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PSYCHIC PALACE VISIONS (masterpsychicsophia)

200 posts

i can help with this just contact me today

over 10 years ago
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Adviser Hannah (psychicreaderhannah)

670 posts

Hello, i can help and guide you with whatever you want or need, i can give you a full life reading with no time limit for $15, i give no false hope. contact me live for more info. :)

over 10 years ago
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Love Advisor Rose (lovespecialistrose)

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Hi, I am picking up a whole bunch of information. I would like to tell you about it in a more private way though. I am a love specialist.

Hope to hear from you soon, Rose

over 10 years ago

Hi Trisha,

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over 10 years ago

hi sweetie im sorry to hear about all the issues going on, i did read thru things for you and have some good and bad news i hope you dont mind to hear the truth with out the sugar coating plz contact me when ready