update...will he come back

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on a previous thread,i was speaking about my guy friend who said he was going back to his ex, but told me if it didn’t work with them, he wanted to try again with me. the day after I posted that previous thread, my guy friend did call me-8 times while I was at work! he has texted me several times and called the other day while I was busy…so much for trying to make it work with his ex…I have no clue what he is thinking or planning…

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There should never be an option to work things out with an ex. If he was serious about you he wouldn’t be going back and forth between you and this other woman. He is just creating confusion for yourself and him. Real love makes a choice, committment, and devoted to the relationship. If you allow him to do this, he will go back and forth until you make a choice whether you want to keep experiencing this situation. Set boundaries and if you don’t agree with it, don’t go along with it.

Dear Jessica,

I totally agree with heavenly above.

This shows that he expects you to put your life on hold for him when and if it is convenient for him.

Sorry where is your self-respect here. Where is your self-love.

This guy does not know his own mind and if you contuine to permit this situation you will find yourself hurt each again and again.

All the best ESTHER

I have self love and self respect or else I would be putting life on hold. I initially told him that he is an adult and has made his decision which was to go back to his ex. I told him nothing more had to be said. this is when the calls and texts began. I just want clarity not to be a backup plan.

Jessica, obsviously he is not seriously about working things out with his ex properly or he would not be contacting you.

So he is not serious there and he is not serious about you either. When a person seriously wants to work at a relationship, they do not keep in contact with the other person at all (unless there are children involved – then of course discussion about the children still requires communication but it should be about that and that only).

Sorry on a feeling level – you are a backup plan.

All the best ESTHER

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