SAVING and KEEPING the RELATIONSHIP

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It’s not always a matter of “meant to be” – you wanted this person and attracted him or her in your life for a reason. There is no such thing as coincidence because everything was meant to be from the start and even the fact that you are reading this is a hint from the universe that.. “Hey! You have to know this to get things in your relationship straight!”

Saving and Keeping a relationship is not as easy as one may think. Even soul-mate relationships may find it quite challenging. This is because there is a process and not everything comes easy. THIS IS A SURVIVAL.

FIRST. Do you know this person? Do you really know him? What kind of person is he? Is he expressive? Does he easily get jealous? What are his priorities in life? You have to know the specific individual you are with in the relationship. It’s not always about you being happy – YOU HAVE TO ADJUST if you really wanted to last. It takes two to tango. There is no point in complaining as it will lead you nowhere and you will just attract more negativity in the relationship.

SECOND. Sometimes all you guys needed is some space. You are both different individuals so be and live like one! Don’t always push yourself to your partner to the point he or she cannot breathe anymore. When you are mad or disappointed – you don’t need to suddenly lash out to your partner. Find time to cool down, talk to your advisers or girlfriends about this issue. Sometimes, you just need to relax and calm down and actually see what is going on before you can actually think straight. You don’t want to regret later on, do you?

THIRD. PRAYER WORKS! The last thing you should not do is to lose hope and faith with God. The more you stray out of God’s light… the more confused you get. So when in doubt, when things go wrong – PRAY! Ask for clarity to arise and healing to happen between you and your partner. You have to put God at the center of the relationship for it to have the stability you’ve always wanted. There is such thing as “psychic attacks” and sometimes it’s our friends, family and loved ones who do this to us – Unintentionally. So I always advise my clients – this is normal and that is why cleansing and healing are necessary and prayer is a part of healing too.

FOURTH. Don’t be afraid to lose this person, the more you are afraid to be separated with that one person you wanted – THE MORE IT HAPPENS! Be confident that he will be there for you and will always love you.

Never forget to love yourself as well. The more you love yourself – the more your partner will love you back in return too.

Saving a relationship is one thing but keeping them is another. It’s not just about strategically fixing and reacting to this – sometimes you need to know more on a spiritual basis for you to know what exactly to do. So the next time you go for a reading with your psychic adviser – try asking more of what you should know and do to save it.

THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY FOR NOTHING IS INEVITABLE. YOU ARE A POWERFUL BEING THAT CAN MANIFEST EVERYTHING YOU HEARTS DESIRE, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HOPE.

Note: False hope – are the things that you are feeling scared and know deep inside you are going to be rejected and things won’t work out but still you faintly hope.

Being REALLY HOPING is about giving positive and loving thoughts on the situation EXPECTING it to really happen and give you positive results and TRUSTING this process. THAT IS WHAT HOPE IS ACTUALLY ABOUT!